
“What can I bring?” Such a simple question, but so fraught for us “high executive functioning” (read: perfectionist and/or controlling) types. What we bring to someone’s dinner party or backyard barbecue or children’s birthday celebration reflects a personal philosophy, whether we intend it to or not.
The Hickory Farms cheese ball vs. local goat cheese with lavender honey; a case of Bud Light vs. a six-pack of seasonal micro-brew; a store-bought sheet cake vs. oat bran and flax seed cupcakes with probiotic yogurt icing. These offerings reveal a little bit about who we are, how we were raised, even our politics.
There’s a very funny scene at the beginning of Allison Pearson’s novel, I Don’t Know How She Does It, where the main character has been asked to bring “appropriate festive refreshments” to her daughter’s school Christmas party. Fearful of being labeled the “Mummy Who Didn’t Make an Effort,” she smashes store-bought mince pies with a rolling pin in an attempt to pass them off as homemade.
At least she’s pragmatic. My problem is I fall in love with a particular recipe and pragmatism flies out the window. This spring, for example, I was tasked with making dessert for a dinner party that included three families, all with children under the age of five. I chose a vanilla custard tart, with a graham cracker crust, layered with strawberries on top. I’m not exactly sure what I thought my strawberry custard tart (with a fluted crust, no less) would say about me. Probably something like, “I know we’re all sleep-deprived and juice-stained and our ‘dinner party’ will be punctuated by interrupted conversations, spills, falls, and the occasional crying jag, but we can still attain some level of meaningful adult interaction through this magnificent dessert.”
But I failed to consider the heat wave. 95 degrees + transporting a custard tart across town in the back of my car = formerly artful spiral of sliced strawberries now half-submerged and drowning in liquified custard. It was pitiful.
Or there’s my favorite vanilla cupcake recipe with a crumb so tender it falls apart with even a hint of rough handling. Why do I keep bringing these to 4-year-olds’ birthday parties? The kids either lick off all the frosting and leave the gorgeous cupcake untouched. Or they dig into the cupcake and leave a wreckage of crumbs all across the table and floor. Like I said, not practical.
And so, the banana bundt cake offers form and function: a lovely flavor, a firm texture that means the cake can be carried around without leaving a Hansel and Gretel trail of crumbs, and a pretty lemon glaze. It’s better the second day, so you don’t have to rush around baking at the last minute. And the lemon glaze firms up, so you can wrap and transport without smushing the icing.
If you’re looking for an easy, tasty, practical dessert that travels well, this is it. But if you’re at all like me, we both know there will be many more episodes with a fallen souffle or a capsized three-layer cake. New recipes will come along — less tidy and sensible, more ambitious and sprawling — and I’ll be off in a new direction.
Thanks to Mary of The Food Librarian for choosing this classic banana bundt cake. You can find the recipe on her site or on page 190 of Baking: From My Home to Yours.


Such a lovely cake!
This cake is delicious indeed — the lemon icing and the banana flavors contrast perfectly. So much tastier than flax seed cupcakes with probiotic yogurt icing.
And you bring up a great point, about how our food choices somehow reflect something larger about our personal, private selves. Like mom and dad always said: “You are what you eat.” They were right in more ways than they knew.
Wonderful post! As someone just past the “sleep-deprived and juice-stained” phase, you’ve captured it all so well.
Your cake looks perfect too!
Your icing looks fabulous.
I had never thought about how our food choices speak of who we are, before.
form and function! you’ve got it spot on. and the glaze on yours looks perfect too!
I walked a whole trip down up and down a hill just to bring the dessert components to my aunt’s house to plate up. Take a look at my version.
It looks very delicious with the lemon icing!
Beautiful picture!
Cakes like this really do travel well and they are so tasty! I loved this recipe and will be making it again. Yours looks fab.
ooh your cake came out so pretty.
Hey – your dinner parties sound like my dinner parties; are we hanging out at the same dinner parties? I really enjoyed this post, and so much of it rang true. Your banana cake looks perfect, and suitable for just about any gathering!
I had to laugh about the 4 year old licking frosting off your delicious cupcake. So true! Your cake looks perfect and that glaze is calling my name!
LOL You crack me up! I love the custard and cupcake stories. Sounds like something I would do. But you are so right, this cake is perfect for transporting! Your glaze is PERFECT too!
Great post. HIt the nail on he head.
Beautiful bundt.
Wow! Great post! This is a completely functional cake – delicious, friendly to kids and adults alike, and easy to transport (except with glaze in the heat! I made that mistake!) Gorgeous photo!
Your cake looks gorgeous. This was a fun post to read – you should go back and read it when you’re thinking about what to bring to a gathering!
Oh wow, gorgeous picture! Your cake is so lovely with the glaze running down the sides! Great post – the “what can I bring” question always stresses me out. I always want to impress but never seem to choose the right recipe for the occasion.
Great post & perfect icing!
Your cake and icing look perfect! YUM.